One of my biggest insecurities is the fear of being disliked - which leads to my inability to say no! In fact this is the reason I didn't post this yesterday because I was so shattered from work and got home late - because I am not good at saying 'no, I really can't fit that in'. I always worry people will think I am being unhelpful, or difficult or not hard working or just not nice. It is high standards I set for myself. If patients phone and ask me to call them, I feel obliged to asap because I know what it's like to be the patient. If I am asked to squeeze one more person in because they really need seen, then I do, because I hate the idea of just leaving them. But for my own sanity I need to learn to be more assertive and not worry so much about what other people think. If people really know me, they will realise if I say no, then I have a very good reason for doing so :-)
p.s bidding on painting now at £90 :-)
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